welcome, glad you found this forum.
Check your narcissism at the door please. The world, and this forum, does not revolve around YOU and YOUR DISCUSSION. Find the threads, read them- choose the one that seems the most 'on point' and THEN add your question/request for clarification to the end. Whatever that may be: "is my diagnosis accurate' or "is this really a DIY" or "should I get OE or aftermarket/OEM"
Heres the reason why: many members will get a email update when you post- so when you add to a thread that 12 people have participated they may all get a copy of your query.
And also it doesn't annoy people when a topic that was dicussed 10 times in the last 30 days in brought up again as a brand new topic.
and again, welcome