the odd thing, is just after upgrading it was there in the X5. Although missing the direct mode feature. I was screwing around with it and went to check out the E38. When I noticed it was gone I put the key back in the X and it had dissapeared. Pretty wacky.
After pulling the negative cable I got it to come back in the E38. I was going to let the X sit for a while prior to turning it back on.
By the way, I would like to get the BMW logo back up on startup. I know someone was messing with this before
http://www.bimmerboard.com/forums/posts/138933 but file he mentioned is only found in the MKII and MKIII directories of the prior OS disks and not this patch. Anyone have an idea where to look to change the logos in the MKIV sofware. I am sure it is a file in this patch as it was overwritten by the OS version number