1. VR is a dealer installed (or self-install) option. Doubtful if you have it, but to find out simply hold down the button on the steering wheel with the icon of a speaking face. If you hear a "beep" try saying "help". Here's the install guide and a listing of the commands -
http://www.xoutpost.com/articles.php?...ticle&artid=10
2. Check with Vaheh at Crevier BMW