Unlock the OBC and see what your voltage is when the car is running, I bet you have over or under voltage and your Vreg on your alternator is taking a dump, IF you arent getting the actuator click.

Oh and btw your buddy with the BMW software would do you a friggin solid if he didnt just give you code numbers but the actual explanations of the errors and descriptions of each code which is visible in the scan he does with DIS.

Posting a bunch of numbers to us doesnt really show much at all, I have DIS software and don't even know them.

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