OK all, here's my updated list of stuff to get. This should cover the major pieces: cooling, CCV, VPG, VCG, VANOS/Timing. This list doesn't seem so bad considering just the VPG done by the dealer would be over half the cost of this stuff.
Cooling - Water Pump - GEBA - 11510393336
Cooling - Water Pump O-Ring - rein - 11531710048
Cooling - Water Pump O-Ring - rein - 11531710055
Cooling - Al Water Pump Pulley - ÜRO - 11511742045
Cooling - Water Pump and Fan Clutch Kit - Schwaben - 001170SCH01AKT
Cooling - Al Radiator Bleeder Screw - ECS - 003530ECS01A
Cooling - Expansion Tank Kit - ECS Kit - 17107514964KT
In Kit:
Cooling - Expansion Tank Hose - BMW - 11531439123
Cooling - Expanstion Tank - Mahle-Behr - 17107514964
Cooling - Expansion Tank Hose - rein - 11537505950
Cooling - Expanstion Tank Cap - febi - 17111742231
Cooling - Coolant Drain Plug Crush Ring - BMW - 07119963225
Cooling - Radiator Hose Lower - rein - 11537500750
Cooling - Radiator Hose Upper - rein - 11537500746
CCV - Crankcase Vent Pipe - Return - BMW - 11157520742
CCV - Oil Separator Kit - ECS Kit - 11151705237KT
In Kit:
CCV - Throttle Body/CCV Bolt - BMW - 11141460752
CCV - CCV Tube - ÜRO - 11157556837
CCV - CCV Gasket - elring - 11611729728
CCV - Oil Separator Vent Hose - rein - 11157556838
CCV - CCV Valve - Vaico - 11617508541
CCV - Oil Separator - febi - 11151705237
VCG - Ultimate Valve Cover Gasket Set - ECS Kit - 11121437395KT
In Kit:
VCG - Valve Cover Gasket Set - Left - BMW - 11120034105
VCG - Valve Cover Gasket Set - Right - BMW - 11120034104
VCG - Valve Cover Seal Washer - BMW - 11121721879
VCG - Valve Cover Seal Washer - BMW - 11121437395
VPG - Valley Pan Gasket - BMW - 11141736175
Misc - Tensioner Pulleys - Ruville - 11287500560
Misc - Accessory Belt - Continental - 11281432724
Misc - A/C Belt - Continental - 11287507626
Misc - Alternator Gasket - BOSCH - 12317507996
VANOS/Timing - Ignition Coil Cover Gasket - BMW - 11121733969
VANOS/Timing - Upper Timing Cover Gasket 1-4 - BMW - 11141741127
VANOS/Timing - Upper Timing Cover Gasket 5-8 - BMW - 11141741128
VANOS/Timing - Timing Cover Gasket w/ Flange - BMW - 11141435023
VANOS/Timing - Non-Return Valve - BMW - 11121706921
VANOS/Timing - VANOS Solenoid Gasket 1-4 - BMW - 11361705578
VANOS/Timing - VANOS Solenoid Gasket 5-8 - BMW - 11361705579
VANOS/Timing - Timing Chain Guide Rail - Upper - BMW - 11311435028
VANOS/Timing - Camshaft O-Ring - BMW - 11311705512
VANOS/Timing - O-Ring - Victor Reinz - 11141736758
VANOS/Timing - Drain Plug Gasket - BMW - 07119963355
VANOS/Timing - Center Crankshaft Bolt - BMW - 11231736585
VANOS/Timing - Dipstick O-Ring - BMW - 11431707164
VANOS/Timing - Timing Chain Cover Gasket - Lower - BMW - 11141436978
VANOS/Timing - Timing Chain Tensioner - febi - 11317531813
VANOS/Timing - Timing Chain Tensioner Rail - BMW - 11311741236
VANOS/Timing - Timing Chain Guide Rail - febi - 11311741777
VANOS/Timing - Timing Chain Guide Rail - Left - BMW - 11311745406
VANOS/Timing - Crankshaft Seal - Front - febi - 11141275466
VANOS/Timing - Lower Oil Pan Gasket - elring - 11131436324
VANOS/Timing - M62TU VANOS Seals Repair Kit - Beisan - BS051
VANOS/Timing - M62TU VANOS Teflon Ring - Beisan - BS052
VANOS/Timing - M62TU VANOS Pick Tools - Beisan - BS096
VANOS/Timing - Timing Chain Tool Rental - BimmerToolRental - Timing V1
If anyone see's anything missing please let me know. I'm going to order everything today.