So did a little more investigation on this. I ejected the harness from my Alpine amp. Oddly enough it is a 36 pin harness that was supposedly used with the Harmon/Kardon equipped X5's according

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Another strange thing I noticed is that my harness is one piece, not two.
From what I have read either this amp turns on when it senses live level input, or it is always on, or it is turned on by the radio control unit. I haven't been able to find a full pinout description for these plugs.
Regardless I need the RCU to power on with my Eonon head unit. I think

re-affirms the fact that I need to connect pin 5 (violet w/white stripe) on my old styl 17 pin harness to my HU remote wire...