I also had to swap tail light housing pins on my 03 as they varied between models - Caesar Rowinski @ Lightwerkz will sell the proper capacitors needed -
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Yes if you want to code out the "startup strobing" you'd need someone with NCS or similar to code it off for you - I had mine coded off years ago when coding other things like the fog lights on with high beams (6 gun salute), rear fogs enabled, seat belt chime off, etc.