if you cant activate pair, with the button or the intravee then i'd say you ulf is faulty.

You do have a ulf and not a TCU right?

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Sept 03, M3, Silver Grey. Retro-fits: Modded Mk4 DVD Drive, OEM Bluetooth, VR Control, Rainbow Speaker Upgrade, Sony SOT Amp, HK Sub, CCFL, Intravee II, NightMode.