Thank you for finally giving a model year.

. There are different headlight set-ups depending on where you fall within the production range...so model/model year information is VERY important. It helps us to help you better.
If you have a 2004 model year...then that means you should have the facelift headlights that have AE (angel eye) rings. You don't mention if either or both of those rings are illuminating...unless you were including the AEs as the "etc" when your wrote
"All lamps are good though - HID, DRL, etc all OK"..