It's still not clear what set-up you have....the old ULF or the newer TCU bluetooth module. Nor if you have onBoard nav screen or the MID & in-dash CD set-up
You mentioned in the other thread that you were pressing a button inside the console...or was it the steering wheel? Neither is required if you have the newer BT TCU unit that was installed after the 10/04 build date...and you don't have a physical old phone & phone cradle in your center console.
But here in the states...if your build date is after 10/04...you don't need to press any buttons on the steering wheel or in the console to set-up BT connection because we have the newer TCU that automatically makes itself visible for the 1st 2 minutes after turning the ignition to KL R (ignition position 1).
The instructions for my 2005 X5 4.4 was to:
- turn ignition to KL R (position 1) or KL 15 (position 2) which makes the X5 "visible"
- open your phone's settings to where you can search for BT devices (again, on your phone)...and if you do this during the 1st 2 minutes of step 1...you should see your BMW listed. It should appear as BMW XXXXX (where the Xs = the last 5 digits of your VIN).
- Select your BMW on your iPhone then proceed to enter the PK code from your X5's BT module.
- Turn the ignition OFF. When you turn it back on, your phone and X should be paired.