I'm back to shopping in earnest. I've been looking at 2011 and later models (3.5) with as many options as I can get for my budget (around $20k). I'm trying to keep it under 70k miles.

The good news is there is no shortage of vehicles, but I do I have to dig to find the nuggets. Wife has to have heated seats, and I want the flexibility of the 3rd row (kids are still small enough to fit back there). The 3rd row option obviously limits the selections pretty quickly. But I'm also not on any timeline, so maybe I have the upper hand? My goal is to have as many options as possible.

Wishlist:

Heated sport seats
Heated rear seats
3rd row
Sport steering wheel
Top view
Bluetooth
Not white

Any leads welcome.