- Reseat the linkage arm.
- Add one drop of Red Loctite to the threads.
- Tighten it snug, then turn a bit more.

You can do it, this is using basic tool and Loctite, which you can find at any auto parts store.

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1998 E39 528i 5sp MT
2006 E53 X5 3.0 6sp MT