How about a hitch that is invisible when not in use? These seem to be the standard in Europe..

Execuhitch - Manufacturer and Retailer of Hidden Tow Hitches for BMW, Mercedes, Subaru

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXK9PtfU0vY

Edit: I'd still use the factory wiring harness though..

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