I hear you man. But. The H&R are way too expansive.. It's almost $400. $400 for piece of metal? Give me a break. What is their profit margin? Unfortunately I fell in love with them but if I have to spend $400 for adapters I rather sell them and buy 5x120 and save my self headache.
This is the only one I found for reasonable price. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08BJGJQG7?ref=myi_title_dp

But I still understand that it's critical component of the car. Last think what I want is loose wheel at 80mph