There are 12v power at the fuse block right rear of car. I forget which are key on. You can use a relay to switch using the backup light as a signal control (maybe with RC filter to keep it 12v; you coughs direct drive with said filter also).

You can code out the light errors

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2011 E70 • N55 (me)
2012 E70 • N63 (wife)