OK I just put the pump back up into place and with the wiring harness unclipped it looks like the wiring would work out (even nicer) if the connector went to the housing end like the 4 zone pump has! That being said the u-tube video I watched should the harness tight with the none 4 zone pump exactly like mine was.

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1988 325is (purchased new) sold
2004 X5 3.0 2005 X3 2.5
2008 X5 3.0 (new to me)