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Originally Posted by bcredliner
I don't view disagreeing with posts as gaslighting. Can you give me an example of what you view as gaslighting so I know and can be sure I don't do it anymore? I don't expect anyone's political beliefs to change. It's amazing that you can remember something that didn't set well with you 10 years ago. I can't remember what anyone has said that didn't sit well with me a couple of days ago. One of the benefits or failings of age, depending how you view it. FYI, I haven't been on the forum for 10 years but I get your point.
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You go beyond a simple disagreement. You have a need to prove a point!
Your requested example is simple. You pop off with condescending remarks. I receive them as insults. I then fire back with a condescending joke. You then take offense, formulating a response that blames the entirety of it on me. Then, you further cast insult by saying, “I am an angry person”. “Why do you gotta make insults Happy”? Seriously..!? Geez, I wonder… Gaslighting.
I don’t really have political beliefs, so not a problem for me.
You don’t want to offend me anymore, then start with, “Hey Happy, how’s the E53”? Or, “Have you done anything new to the E53 recently”? You know small talk. Not always trying to correct someone or prove some point.
I can remember things as far back as 40 years ago. I thank God I have a healthy, educated brain. And it’s not about remembering something that didn’t set well with me on a single occasion, it’s about how I’ve been treated over a lengthy time period. You haven’t been very friendly to me. Xoutpost is about making friendships through a common interest, the X series BMW’s.
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