That's a tough one. If the bolts are clean and lightly lubricated it makes a huge difference on how tight they get. Also a small spot weld might do the trick, or welding on a new lug.

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1988 325is (purchased new) sold
2004 X5 3.0 2005 X3 2.5
2008 X5 3.0 (new to me)