Ahhh ok.

Shifts great everywhere now apart from when warm coming to a stop and going 2nd 1st. It's not there when cold, only after it's warm and in city traffic which is annoying as I'm right in the city and average about 15-20mph usually so lots of start stop traffic.

I still haven't done another reset and followed the procedure on the FCPeuro site.

Edit: manually shifting is fine. No idea why it comes practically to a stop in 2nd then jolts itself into first. If I brake harder no problem, only when gently rolling to a stop.