While I was researching where I could find and connect into the IBUS, to use my stand-alone Android tablet (dash-mounted) without removing the non-Android radio, I decided to use the IBUS wire that resides in the harness with the X4545 connector. I never got the Resler module, nor the app, yet, but at least I know where to find the IBUS wire nearby, under the console.

EODguy, comparing your photo to my reference photo, it looks like you might've damaged the X4545 and/or the X01049 harnesses. X4545 with the IBUS, and X01049 with the eject box (phone) wiring.

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01 BMW X5 E53,3.0i-5L40E, 7/13/01
topas-blau,Leder-grau,"resto-project car"

Here:
14 Lexus ES350,3.5L-U660E
09 HHR Panel,2.2L-4T45E
04 Chevy 2500HD,6.0L-4L80E
98 GMC Sierra 1500,5.7L-4L60E

Gone:
66 Chevelle Malibu 2dr ht.,327>441c.i.-TH350>PGlide/transbrake
08 Cobalt Coupe,2.2L-4T45E
69 & 75 C10s,350c.i.-TH350
86 S10,2.8L-700R4
73 Volvo 142,2.0L-MT4
72 & 73 VW SuperBeetles,1.6l-MT4
64 VW,1.2l-MT4
67 Dodge Monaco 500 2dr ht.,383c.i.-A727
56 Chevy 210 4dr,265c.i.-PGlide