GO LAURA wait 3-5 days and dont spend more than 40? is this like something i missed in college? why not call a girl when you want to after getting a number and spend as much as you think you should because 40 doesnt really buy you much of anything, and why not pull out the chair and open the car door and let the lady through first? is that like out of our guy code? because let me tell you that works a lot better than the 3 day rule and the 40 max. i might only be 24 and still wet behind the ears as some of you might say but trust me when i say this women of all ages appreciate some good ol' chivalry