Man your kidding right!? So the rest of his life your going to go around and make your stepson's life more comfortable by having others modify thier behavior so that he is in his comfort zone?!?!? I guess he will be living in you house until he is like 45 then working at a min wage job as a maximun loser...you should be teaching him tolerance of others instead of asking someone else to change thier believe system. SUCK IT UP AND DEAL>>>DON"T HATE RELATE!