thanks for the advice guys, i'm gonna talk to the guys at my body shop before i cancel the order but it looks like thats the route im gonna take. i really thought that this situation wasnt right but i just wanted to make sure i wasnt crazy...while i got your attention about modbargains/bimmian. ive always heard good things, what have your experiences been like ordering from them...im still planning on getting the interior xenons and all that from them so i just wanna double check