Thanks to all that replied. I just hit Walmart...only becuase it was an emergency...I got her two beds one for up and one for down stairs...she is in a crate right now. I believe that crate training is the path to success over the long term so that is where she is. I also got her toys that she can call her own. She was playing with Neo's stuff till this morning. I will make sure that he eats first and gets his walks etc so as to not make him feel that he has lost any of that. I might be over worrying at this point and will give it more patients and less panic...it is just that I have never heard him growl at anyone....I will also let them figure it out amoungst themselves.