wuzin ,
since you have done this perhaps you could help me out with some wiring questions.
I just picked up a VSM and a bubble bee camera and a relay from EAS (no A/V panel). I have some wiring questions after looking at the diagram that came with it.

VSM harness has 4 wires (black,blue,red,grey) coming off it.
grey is labeled "camera 12v"
red is labeled "12v acc"
blue is labeled "hand brake ground"
black is labeled "ground"

on vsm
from what I understand from the diagram:
red to some switched power source.
black grounded
blue grounded
grey to terminal 30 on relay

on relay
connect 86,87 together and connect to switched power source
connect 85 to ground trigger , assume this goes to reverse light power ?

on camera
besides RCA jack have 2 wires
striped red/white with fuse , assume this goes to switched source ?
striped black/white , assume this goes to ground.

any help would be appreciated.
any tips on where to connect to switch source and ground on x5 ?

Thanks
Dennis