I know first hand that it is hard to select the right school. It takes a lot of investigation as you know. Sorry I can't provide you any input on RPI, don't know much about that one. I just finished my MSIT from Capella. Here is a look at their Technology programs:
http://www.capella.edu/schools_progr...ogy_index.aspx
Best of luck in finding the right school and program for you.