The problem is that i could not find the purple/white wire in my cargo area to connect to the 12v red wire, but i found another 12v source that powered my VSM...
but thats not the problem;

where would i connect the grey wire too; i already have 1relay wit these connections: the only connection i dont have is the pin17 connected
RELAY CONNECTION


i just dont know what to do wit the grey wire cause if i hook it up straight into the reverse light + it flickers

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