I realize I'm thick but if it says "the only option you NEED to purchase is the VR module", than to me that means I NEED to puchase it.

Please dont met wrong, I'm happy NOT to spend money..

But I read that option as necessary..

So, since I dont have a manual, would someone kindly walk me through the steps:
A) I get in car with my Bluetooth enabled phone
B) Does the vehicle somehow recognize that the phone is in range?
C) A call comes in.. Do I (without having installed any options ie V) simply press the R/T to receive/talk..?
D) How do I integrate the phone book in the phone with the steering wheel controls..

I'm sure that this would typically be a RTFM magnet, but please give me a little break, since I dont have one..

Thanks
ED