i use linkedin. it's been a great way to network and reconnect with former co-workers that i had lost track of. i don't get spammed and you can reject networking requests if you want. it's a legit site.

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2006 X3 3.0i
Black sapphire with terracotta Montana leather
Premium & sports packages, heated seats, privacy glass, and BMW iPod integration kit
My first BMW - I love it!

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