The X3 is in a gray area I think.... but that being said, most of the X3's I see in NJ/NY/LI are driven by women.
THAT being said, I'm of the philosophy that when someone else is helping me make the payments, I'll listen to their opinion about my car,otherwise, I couldn't care less. I have a vette with stripes down the middle, some people like 'em, some hate 'em, I ignore both sides