Thanks y'all!!
As for the snow/xi question, I am from SC so prefer not to drive when it snows anyway. And it doesnt get bad enough here in DC to worry about it.
The TSX/TL was another option when I was considering the X. They are good, but just so blah. I love the way bimmers drive. Granted TL's and E90's are nothing special up here and couldnt swing a dead cat w/o hitting one of them.
CPO Infinity? eeeeeehhh...... Thought about Benz...but hahah yeaaah reliability isnt quite in their vocab either.