Limited is a fine ride too. Doesn't really matter, the entire 4Runner lineup is outstanding. Regarding 4WD, she should def get it considering where she lives. BMW's have even more traction systems, and the rwd models struggle in snow without snow-tires.

Plus, I'm pretty sure you can't get a Limited with 2WD. With the V6, you can control the 4WD. It's rwd until it detects slip, in auto mode. You can completely control the transfer case too.

As far as Ford goes, why take the risk when there are better Japanese alternatives..