Now, thats one helluva story. I really have mixed feelings about this but I see you are determined which is a geat sign. Ofcourse I have to agree with the rest that you should be very careful but I'm sure you knew that before writing this post. Yeah, we can all say your chances are 50/50 but its just like meeting a girl in the same town. You never know what her intentions are.
Just remember that once she gets to the US, she is kind'a your responsibilty, she is leaving her mother land and will get home sick sooner or later, which could get her depressed. She'll need support and understanding.

I hope everything works out for the both of you. Good luck.

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