Correct me if I'm wrong but the talk button doesn't put the X in discovery mode. You have to turn blue tooth from your phone first. Then turned the cars ignition to position #1 then the discovery process is automatic. The pairing process get completed when it asks for your password. That's the way it worked for me.

I have to tell you though the pairing process was not a snap. It took several tries for this process to complete. It turned out that i was trying to hard to complete a simple process. Aside from a mechanical issue it should be painless

In my case the contacts became an issue because The BMW bluetooth didn't recognize my address book. It only wanted favorites from my phone. There couldn't be any funny characters either or the load process would take longer. Wish you well with the process.

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