Finally, I bought a Bosch DSC control unit and had it installed and coded by non-authorized BMW dealer, total cost including labor is US$700. Much cheaper than BMW dealer of US$2,180. Now my X backs to normal. Very happy!

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--2004 E53 X5 4.8is - ECE version; right hand drive; Located in Hong Kong; ext. black sapphire metallic; int. leather black; adaptive dynamic bi-xenon headlights; 16:9 onboard monitor w/o navigation; 20" genuine BMW Y-spoke 214 wheels with Bridgestone Dueler H/P Sport tires; Int. rear view mirror w/ compass.