I definitely have it connected to the 6 pin and the 3 pin. On the MID it scrolls that I have the Ice Link Plus and then it says *AUX* with the asterix' just as I typed it.

I do have full control of the iPod right now. But I do not see a coaxial cable at all. With the DSP adapter do I connect that to the 6 pin wire? If so, and you feel that that will work, let me know how to get the DSP adapter.