Well, staying up late all night, looking at dealer and owner reviews, epinions, etc...It looks like the successor to the X5 is the.......
2005 Nissan Pathfinder...(tentatively :p ) Im waiting to see how big a lie the 16/23 mpg actually is.
Based on a "combination" of important features, it had almost everything I needed. Looks, size, and reclining rear seats!!
Decision wont be official until I get back in a few months, but if anything better comes along, Ill be sure to give it some thought!!
Still open to thoughts, suggestions, etc..And many thanks for everyones valued input!!