I did not receive a valet key (i.e. wallet key and fob shell). As far as I can tell that was only for the 07s. It was described in the 07 manual, but has been deleted from the 08 manual.
I did not receive a DVD manual. I have never even heard of one before. There are some video clips online describing the features of operation. I find these pretty useless.
I find it strange that they no longer include the wrenches. Especially since the slots in the toolkit holder are still there. Also, the z-shaped allen wrench is actually needed for the sunroof in case of power failure...and even describes this in the 08 manual...so it is not like this a superfluous piece of equipment. I still haven't figured out what the open ended wrech is supposed to fit. I can clearly use my own wrenches if I ever needed them, but it is just weird to have empty spaces for something you know other people got and for which there is clearly assigned slots. I know at least the early MY2008s (US delivered) came with both. I find it hard to believe they just stopped including it at some point during production.
Perhaps they ran low at some point and just shipped the X5s without them?