i installed my adapter, BT module, and mic yesterday, and all works fine.... the pairing is still not able to connect. the phone specifies that its connect to the car, but the X5 just wont pair.

i tried my gf's n80, and that worked perfectly, so i know im not doing it wrong.

ive printed out about a half dozen guides for the iphone connection routine, with WLAN off, with WLAN on, so im at wits end at the moment.

thoughts?