It's just that the fender flares can't be ordered with your dealer unless you get the sport option on a 4.8i. What a lot of people do on their own is order the flares and put them on on their own, it'll fit just fine on a 3.0si too.
http://www.xoutpost.com/accessories-f...el-option.html (you may want to ask for updated pricing in case and don't forget the rivets)