Quick question for you guys, I don't know if I should reset my transmission or if there is an actual problem...

scenario: not coming to a complete stop at a stop sign / red light and then turning or going the car seems to be in the wrong gear, the engine will rev up and the car won't do anything and then it jams it into a lower gear pretty violently

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2006 BMW X5 4.8is Lemans Blue/Beige/Dark Maple
-Nav, Comfort Seats, Heated Steering Wheel,
Rear Airbags, AUX Input
2009 BMW M3 Space Grey/Black/Carbon
-all options