dump a couple of the "options" and order the 4.8i. just my opinion.
i don't use a Bluetooth type phone but i don't believe you need to order the tech package to use Bluetooth. mine is bluetooth capable and i only have premium package. tech package is Nav and well "other" options.
4.8 with premium, 3rd row, running boards, sport, heated front seats & rear climate with i-pod adapter. $66.2k per the BMW build your own website. just my opinion now mind you.
i average 16 to 17 mpg in mixed driving. 18.5k miles in just under a year. the 3.0 did not excite me in any way, shape or form.