there is something kind of funny about all of the parenting advice.

alpac - glad your daughter is OK, and glad you have a plan to fix it up.

as for the rest of it - I know my kids better than anyone, and love them more than life itself, and I am sure I will figure the appropriate course of action for my family, given my relationship with my daughters, when that time comes.

as forest gump says - that's all i have to say about that.