Just wondering if it's worth the extra $$$ on the 4.8is.

I have not had a chance to drive one yet, but does it take getting used to? Is the steering really soft like driving a minivan?? I like the tight steering and it's very responsive but sometimes it feels too stiff especially with 20's. On the other hand, I don't want it so soft that you lose interaction with the vehicle and feel like the steering has play on it like driving a Chrysler.

Any thoughts from those that have this option? Would you recommend it?