hey--
I got those options programmed at the dealer...they are quite stubborn with that stuff. They had told me that my interior motion was not a feature that was programmable--which was absurd.
They need to hook up it to the machine and active/deactivate stuff from a list of options.
The only (from my experience) is through the machine the dealer has in the shop. So try to get it serviced again and hope they let you in as they look over the programmed options--if you get a good service guy he may be able to go over the options with you and let you decide what you want.
best of luck