Alright..so I took everything apart. Sanded down the post that the ground wire connects to and tried it..no light..Still the same thing was happening. Then after some thought, I disconnected the actual fog light assembly from the wires that go inside the fog light hole in the bumper. I sanded down the metal connecter outlets that were exposed from where i disconnected it from the wires that go into the bumper. I did that for about 5 or 6 minutes and put everything back together again and bling! Fog lights work, no problems.. So yes, the sand paper worked, but not on the ground wire housing post. I had to go a little further and disconnect the foglight from the car and sand those 2 prongs down.. Thanks for the suggestions guys! Nothing like fixing the X on a Friday night..