good news for me i took the x5 to a place that only deals with bimmers
not sure if i can mention it here so pm me if anyone needs the name and address. those guys were life savers and only chaged me 1 hour of labor
even though they analyzed the car for longer than that so now all is good now. the problem was my indy guy totally ripped me off did not replace my regulator only rigged it so that my window would go up and down but disconnected the airbag meanwhile causing a short in master switch which caused the locks and windows to malfunction. firm believer now in only going to bmw certified techs for any major work.