hire a lawyer and have her sign a prenuptial agreement that says

"Rich have the sole decision when it comes to X mods..."

funny thing, when i was at Bay Diagnostics this morning, one mech was working on a 740iL for S2 Dinan package, the car's owner was so cool and he even showed me the 6 series he have outside the shop, told me he is married too, so i asked "dont you ever get an earful from your wife when u do mods on your bimmers?" and he was like, "when she first met me i told her how much i love cars, and if i have to work overtime so i can mod my car, i will do it"...

I invited him to the CT meet on June 6 and he is interested... based on his 740iL, he loves modding his car, i can tell you that...

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