OK, just shot some video. Its dark but you can hear the exhaust and thats the point here. Seems you have to rev it pretty good to get any noise. Nothing until at least 3,500 rpm.
YouTube - BMW 2002 4.6 x pipe resonator delete
Are stock 4.6 mufflers really restrictive? My guess is that they are.
Also I weighed the resonator and as I recall it was like 18lbs.