Finally zeroed on these combo

XM Direct Satellite Radio Package for BMW & Mini
eas - 714.369.8524 | XM Direct Satellite Radio Package for BMW & Mini

DICE - SILVERLINE PRO iPod Integration Kit for X5 00-06 (Trunk Interface)
eas - 714.369.8524 | DICE - SILVERLINE PRO iPod Integration Kit for X5 00-06 (Trunk Interface)

Decided not to get the mystoreradio Xm products as i am not sure about the compatibility with Dice

Placed an order

will update once i get them installed